Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, we’ve all been fed certain beliefs about love that might sound romantic—but could actually be harmful. In this video, we’re breaking down 5 common dating lies that can lead to misunderstandings, unhealthy expectations, and even emotional manipulation.
💔 Here’s what we’ll cover:
✅ "A Relationship Will Complete You" – You’re already whole, and love doesn’t fix everything.
✅ "If You Work at It, It Will Work Out" – Some relationships aren’t meant to last, and that’s okay.
✅ "Labels Are Not Important" – Lack of clarity can lead to confusion and heartbreak.
✅ "If They Wanted To, They Would" – Unrealistic expectations can ruin good relationships.
✅ "Being Low Maintenance Makes You More Attractive" – Suppressing your needs doesn’t make you more lovable.
💡 Understanding these lies can help you:
✔ Build stronger, more honest connections
✔ Set healthier relationship expectations
✔ Avoid unnecessary heartbreak
What are some dating myths you’ve encountered? Drop them in the comments! 💬
Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Isadora Ho & Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon
Animator: Seyoung
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong
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